I thought about something similar on Sunday night as I cooked dinner while everyone else in the house was napping. It brought back the memory of Sunday dinners at the Wilde's before we moved out here. From the day we got married (or maybe even engaged...) I never had to cook a single Sunday dinner. It wasn't until we moved here to Cleveland that I had to cook my first one! I know I never thanked Diane enough for working so hard for us on her day of rest! Now that I'm the one doing the cooking while my family rests, I realize how hard that must have been and what a sweet sacrifice she makes each week to prepare a nice meal so her family can sit down and enjoy each others company. Thank you, Diane.
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I guess I've been thinking a lot lately about how Jeremy and I finally feel like we're 'grown-ups'. That sounds funny typing it out... but it's true! We have been so busy lately between our callings, school, friends, and our family... that it feels like we're really adults. We are doing the things that our parents did for us for years and it's finally sinking in that we're the parents now. I'm the mom, so I get to clean up after everyone... make the dinner... do the laundry... all that stuff. As boring and mundane as it gets some days.... I am genuinely happy and I wouldn't have it any other way.
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What a great blog Chelle! I totally agree with you. There are so many things I've taken for granted in my life. I never cooked a Sunday dinner until we moved out here either. Aren't parents amazing? It's scary sometimes thinking about what we have to live up to!
I have been having that same feeling too. I blogged about a typical Sunday dinner that my Dad always made. I spent the whole week wishing we could have that meal, then I relized, I am the one who has to make it! I am the Mom.
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sigh I want to be grown up SO BAD! I guess thats the difference between Elliot and I...sigh
What wonderful thoughts!!! I know exactly what you mean. Some days I feel more grown up than others!! You made me want to call my mom and give her a GREAT big hug! So thanks! I love these moments of reflection-thanks for sharing, you are great!
P.S. I hope you are feeling better! Please tell Grace that I missed her!
So, way to make a mom cry! Especially after the way today started...one child threatens to kill herself because I'm making her help fold the laundry and unload the dishwasher. Six times. So, I got to call the police on my own child today. And why did I do that? Because I didn't want her to harm herself or anyone else today. The police officer was wonderful, btw, in getting her to think about what her mom does for her.... and now...as I'm typing this...I just got another phone call. The police department in S.F. just called me!!! Oh my gosh...... Thanks Chelle, for being one of my responsible kids!!!
You hit the nail on the head. You have NO IDEA what your parents did for you until you become a parent. I think I was 16 before I started helping to do the dishes after a meal. And then we're talking once a week. Bless my ungrateful heart.
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